Fairyland

Picked the kid up from school and found her quietly sitting at the corner of her assigned table doodling. She smiled when she saw me and ran to show off her picture to me. My, I was pretty impressed with her drawing. She said this is called Fairyland and proceeded to tell me the inspiration she had behind each character in this drawing made out of little people, animals and objects carefully thought through.

What a keepsake. I hope I don’t lose it!

 

Happy Mother’s Day

Broaching the subject of Mother’s Day with the Man can be quite scary. The other day, I casually mentioned that I had purchased some gifts for my Mom, sisters and some close Mommy friends for the upcoming occasion. As we can’t go out to celebrate the occasion, I hope that these presents would send some cheer along the way. The Man got agitated and said to me, “Well, if you are expecting anything from me, you are not getting any. You are not my mother and while the occasion honors mothers, it’s something the kid should do and not me.”

KILL JOY.

I mean, I was just sharing with him something that I did. I wasn’t expecting him to do anything. It would be nice but I know that it isn’t his nature and I wasn’t telling him all this to arm-twist him into throwing something fancy for me. I was just making conversation after a day’s of work and staying indoors.

OH WELL.

So I wasn’t expecting anything to be honest. My social media feed was filled with happy images of mommy friends with floral bouquets, gifts and meals lavished on them. While I secretly hoped that I would receive the same treatment. I know the time was not now for the Man has been under immense stress as well. Another place, another time then.

It was sufficient that the baby girl made me a card and showered me with unlimited kisses during the day. The Man and I played tag team to whip up a fancier than usual meal using caviar. I guess I didn’t want to draw too much attention to the occasion, I mean what’s the point of ruffling up his feathers?

But somewhere during the day, we did receive flowers for both me and the MIL! Presented by the kid who beamed and announced that she specially chose the flowers for us.

Truly my sweetheart!

Thanks to the Man for the lovely flowers! Next time don’t be so grumpy when I am just sharing about my day can. I mean, why ruin the feels? Thank you for all you have done!

Also, I thought if no one is going to make me happy on the ocassion to celebrate Mums, the least I could do is to make myself happy. So I went out and purchased this Coconut pudding from Soicco and it was absolutely divine. I finished 3 out of the 5 tubs on my own. Ain’t sharing with no one.

Cat cafe for kids in Tokyo (MOCHA Takeshita Street)

Pet cafes such as owl, hedgehogs and even cat cafes are apparently a plenty in Japan but not every cafe allow kids under a certain age. While planning for our family trip to Tokyo, I did want to bring the little one to visit a cat cafe since she has always loved cats.

I went online in search of a few of these cafes that would allow kids of 5 and above in and thankfully, we managed to find one conveniently located in Harajuku. The girl was beyond excited and I think it must have marked one of her highlights of our family holiday. We visited the cafe on a public holiday so there was a short queue that formed when we arrived. Thankfully, it moved pretty fast for the girl not to whine about the situation.

We had to sanitise our hands as well as leave our shoes behind before entering the premises of the cat cafe. When the doors to the cat land opened, the girl went wild! She was beyond thrilled to see so many cats under one roof and wasted no time in asking me to fork out some money for cat treats for her to entice the cats to come to her.  FYI, cat treats start from 500 yen.

She had such a fun time chasing after the cats and then pouting when none of them would sit next to her to let her pat them.  It was priceless watching her interact with the cats and then being so gentle with them.

The Man and I aren’t particularly big on the feline creatures but I have to say that there are several breeds of cats that are found in this cat cafe and they were fun to look like. We probably spent an hour in this cafe prancing up and down while the girl wanders off to find a new feline pal to play with.

As a family, I’m glad we did this for the kiddo. Look at her beam from ear to ear! So if your kid is a cat lover just as much as ours, do bring them to the Cat Cafe in Japan. It will make for a fun and memorable experience.

Cat Cafe Mocha

AddressJapan, 〒150-0001 Tokyo, Shibuya City, Jingumae, 1 Chome−19−9 プライム原宿 2F

Those who are between 3 and 12 years old can only enter this shop accompanied by a guardian.

Price: ¥200/ 10 minutes- Maximum Charge
– General ¥2,400
– Junior High/High School Students ¥1,200 *Weekdays onlySeparately ¥350 is charged required fees for All-you-can-drink.* All listed prices are excluding tax.

Investment of a different kind

After decluttering my wardrobe and realising that more than half of the things I have bought have either been repurposed, re-gifted or thrown away, I started to become more conscious of just mindless buying.

I’ve decided to turn my investment on to my skin. Well, simply because time waits for no man and so does our skin. But with proper care, perhaps the signs of age on the skin can somewhat be delayed. That of course is my hope.

Perhaps also now that the Bub is slightly older, I also have a little more time to myself. So when she goes to bed, I do carve out some time between 30 – 45 mins for my night-time beauty ritual. This is what I usually try to do (keyword – TRY):

Once a week:

  • Hair mask : The ends of my hair tend to be a lot drier with permed hair now, so I try to keep my hair soft with a hair mask every week. My fave is the Hair Mask from Meg (available on Ksisters). After about 20-30 minutes of placing my hair in the mask, I find my hair being really smooth after washing the residual of the hair mask away. The softness of my hair is maintained for at least two days and when my stash of hair masks run out, I either get the Korean ones from Watsons or Innisfree.
  • Deep cleansing mask : Another fave of mine is the deep cleansing mask from Serendi Beauty (also available on Ksisters). Prolonged usage of this mask will actually help minimise the size of your pores and it even helps to remove blackheads (my nemesis). While my blackheads haven’t disappeared overnight, I do feel that my pores are somewhat smaller. My face does look clearer the next morning after using this mask. Thus, I do try to be a little more diligent in using this at least once a week.
  • Miraskin RX Lifting mask: The elasticity of my skin tend to lose its firmness with age so I’ve been trying to care for it more. I really like the lifting mask as it helps to firm up the skin and improve overall appearance. It has a filling and lifting effect without any painful needles.
  • Neck mask: The neck is often neglected but actually that’s the one area that also needs a lot of care for it can reveal your true age with all the age lines shown. I know I should probably invest in a stronger neck cream but I keep forgetting to apply it. So the best way for me to care for my neck is to slather on a neck mask from Innisfree once a week. I usually do this together with my hair mask so I literally just stay in the toilet for a good 20 to 30 minutes masking simultaneously my hair, face and neck.

At least two to three times a week:

  • A facial sheet mask: I get an assorted range of sheet masks and alternate the use based on what I feel like that day. So from hydrating, purifying, brightening or soothing, there are different ones that I used from different brands. Along with slathering on a sheet mask, I also use this Pobling Gua Sha massager to massage my face with the mask on. It apparently helps to firm and lift the face too. Whatever works man, I’m willing to give it a shot.
  • Deep cleansing nose pore mask: I purchased this nose pore oxygenated mask from Don Don Donki for under $10. It’s supposed to help with removing blackheads and you can achieve baby smooth skin with this product. I’m not sure if it works entirely but after I wash the mask off, I usually will sit down and extract the blackheads on my own. I think extraction is the only way of getting rid of those comedones.
  • Petal Purifying Bubble Mask from Mamonde: I love to use this in the morning as a quick perk-me-up to the face before I put on my toner, serum, eye cream and moisturiser. It helps prime the face and makes it really soft and supple before I complete it with my morning beauty regime. Have to add, the rose petal smell also helps to soothe the senses.

On a daily basis:

  • Saborino Morning Masks: These sheet masks from Saborino promise to perform 3 functions in under 1 minute! Imagine waking up and putting the sheet mask on and after 1 minute, your skin is cleansed, toned and prepped for make-up. Sounds too good to be true right? But these morning sheet masks have been flying off the shelves in Japan. I saw them at the local drug-store during our recent trip to Tokyo but didn’t stop to examine further. It’s only after coming back to Singapore and I saw these in Tokyu Hands, did I then realise what they really did. These masks are also available at Guardian Singapore and I couldn’t help but bought a pack to try. I have to add that I do continue to wash my face in the morning but I enjoy slapping a sheet mask on my face in the morning for the minty and fruity ingredients infused in the mask does do a good job in waking my skin up. I usually leave it on for about 2 minutes for that’s about the amount of time I take to brush my teeth as well. Talk about multi-tasking! At about $20-ish for about 32 masks, I thought these were quite economical to prep and tone the face. But according to some online reviews, they felt that it was pricey for a product that could only last for a month compared to some beauty products that you could get for almost the same price and that could last longer. For me, I thought a little investment is necessary to achieve nicer looking skin!

  • Eye masks: The Man got a variety of them from Japan that can be used daily. Love the packaging which is rather eco-friendly for 20 or more of these eye masks are kept in just one packet rather than individual packs.

  • Skin whitening supplements: I’ve caved in to taking oral supplements to try and achieve fairer skin or rather to whiten the pigmentation on my face. I guess I can’t avoid the age spots now that I am getting older but I sure can try to delay it. Have been taking these oral supplements for the past 2 months. I am hardly the pill-popper but I really do try to remember that I have to take them on a daily basis. Let’s hope it works.

There you have it, my attempt in trying to achieve better skin (and look younger) with this skincare regime.

 

Half for you, Mama

We celebrated Mother’s Day a week ahead of the actual occasion as one can imagine it would be quite crazy to secure any decent restaurant reservations over the actual weekend. The Man brought us all for Japanese and we brought the little one along with us in tow (equipped with all her art materials).

Don’t want to jinx it but she’s at a lovely age now where she can actually eat her meals properly, enjoy the food that’s dished out in front of her, engage in actual conversations with us and the chef as well as sit down to do her craftwork/ colouring/ drawing if needed. We try to refrain from using technology devices unless really needed. To be fair, about 1.5 – 2 hours is all that she can probably take if we are dining out.

The omakase dinner that we had at Ishi was lovely and we really enjoyed the freshness of the sushi and sashimi that were dished out in front of us on top of the wine and sake that the Man ordered. The ending to our meal was a slice of musk melon that the Bub had much earlier when she finished her rice. I knew she would love another piece or two of the melon so I saved my last piece of the melon for her. She was coughing so we didn’t want her to have too much fruit as well.

What she did next really touched me.

She thanked me for the piece of the melon that I had given to her. Then she used the fork and cut the piece of melon into half. I initially thought that she was going to have them both but she fed me the melon with her fork and proceeded to finish up the remaining piece. “I share half with you, ok Mama?”

I must have teared up a little when she fed me with the melon. Such a precious thought coming from my little one. I hope she remains this way – little and pure. 🙂

The day she pierce her ears

Achievement unlocked! Bubba got her ears pierced on 24 March, Sunday at the age of 4 plus turning 5.  Yes, we did it!

Again, different schools of thought as to whether she’s too young to have any sort of piercings and whether she can take care of her ears. But we weighed the pros and the cons, and I thought this would be a good age for her to get a pair of earrings. They do look cute on small girls.

We decided to get our ears pierced with Stellar in the end. My friends tried out services both with B’dazzle and Stellar, and I observed the piercing tools that were used. Both used equipment that comply with health and safety requirements but I preferred Stellar’s ear-piercing equipment for it’s shaped like a pistol giving the technician greater control while holding the child’s ear lobe, ensuring that the earring will be pierced at the mark. The other equipment that I’ve seen previously is shaped like a stapler which u can’t really tell if the piercing in on the mark. Again, I am no professional ear-piercing expert, these are some observations I have made on the two different brands.

There were many varieties of earrings that one can choose from. I was concerned about any infection that might arise as a result of the piercing so we decided to get the 14K Yellow Gold earrings for her. I would have preferrend for the little one to select a simple crystal studded earring but well, we let her have a choice so she picked out a pair of white/pink floral crystal earrings. While it went on a slightly larger size, it did look cute on her! I think we paid about $238 for the earrings which included the complimentary piercing as well as a bottle of solution.

Here’s a photo of the little one prior to getting her ears pierced. This enthusiastic mother made sure that her hair was neatly pleated and I had to take a picture of her without any piercings, of course. The process is irreversable thereafter. She did look very happy and was feeling excited about the whole process for she felt very engaged – from picking of her own earrings to settling down on the big girl chair waiting for the big moment.

Before getting her ears pierced, the technician will actually brief us on what to-do and what we should not do after the piercing. Some things to avoid will be shellfish as the wound might itch and young kids will feel the urge to scratch their ears in the process. This was probably one of the reasons why we chose to let her have her ears pierced earlier too because I find it easier to restrict her diet now compared to when she’s older. Another thing to avoid after getting her ears pierced is not to do any water-related sports/ activities for about 1 week. Again, we timed this to coincide with her one-week term break from swimming. Yes, I guess the stars were aligned.

We were also told that we should clean her earrings with the solution provided – once in the morning and once in the evening and ensure that we twist her earrings to allow the ear-hole to slightly open up to fit the piercing eventually. It’s also recommended to remove the earrings only after 6 to 8 weeks should we intend to change the design of the earrings. Earrings should also be kept on for up to a year, else the ear-hole might risk closing up.

After the detailed briefing, the technician proceeds to look at the Bub’s face structure and then shows us the marking for the earring for each side of the ear. This was the part I was most paranoid about for I had to suffer the brunt of uneven piercing then – blaming it on parallex error. So I brought the Man for reinforcements to check if both sides were even.

Do check out the video on how the deed was eventually done. To be honest, we did prepped the kiddo and showed her videos/ pic of her friends who also had their ears pierced without crying. So I was hoping for the best but she did bawl when both her ears were pierced at the same time. Well, it could be that she kept fidgeting when the numbing spray was being administered or the realisation that there is no turning back that really shocked her!

But guess what, she DID it and we are extremely proud of her! 🙂

Baby Girl’s request

Baby girl is growing up way too fast and the time has come for her to ask us for a pair of earrings. It’s a right of passage, little girl wanting earrings (in her own words) “sparkly and pretty”.  I have deliberated if she’s too young to have earrings and whether she would be able to care for the ear-piercings well enough. But I had my ears pierced when I was a teenager and the concept of pain was a lot harder for me to just shrug it away. Furthermore, I had to deal with unpleasant discharge that came out of the ear piercings so I hope that it would be more manageable for younger kids.

When I shared with the Man his little girl’s intention of having her ears pierced, he immediately jumped and said no. He only caved in when the little one asked him for permission to have her ears pierced. His only request was to be around for this milestone.

So that settles it… we are off to have her ears pierced this Sunday! After doing some research, I’ve narrowed it down to either Be’dazzle at Wisma Shopping Centre or Stellar at Bugis Junction. We are likely to go with Stellar for I’ve read some online reviews on them and they seem quite experienced with ear-piercing for kids.

Wish us luck!!